What was/is your longest relationship spent with a girlfriend/boyfriend?

What is the most time you have invested in one person? About 2 months ago I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. We were living together for about 1.5 years of that time. Now, the transition is a bit hard but I'm managing. Your longest invested time? Your stories/ recent break ups? Discuss.

3 years on an off (my daughters dad) b.c he couldnt help but ruin everything b.c hes a dumb lieing cheating decieving deadbeat idiot. seriously. :smh: been fully single since last spetember. now its hard trying to go out meet someone/date since no guy really seriously wants to date a single mom unless they are over the age of 30. but it is what it is.

My longest is a little more than two years with my current and everything's goin' great. Break ups suck, but you get over 'em sooner or later. I don't want to get into detail with that from my first relationship. It's kind of awkward... Interested to hear others' stories, though. [IMG]http://i851.photobucket.com/albums/ab80/LlGHTS/th224_animated_ninja_disappearing.gif[/IMG]

yeah im still not completely over my first bf but i am my last lol

[quote="SoleAddicted_HoL"]3 years on an off (my daughters dad) b.c he couldnt help but ruin everything b.c hes a dumb lieing cheating decieving deadbeat idiot. seriously. :smh: been fully single since last spetember. now its hard trying to go out meet someone/date since no guy really seriously wants to date a single mom unless they are over the age of 30. but it is what it is.[/quote] Not exactly true, but it is harder to find someone who is willing to be serious. I went out with a girl that had a 1 year old daughter and I stayed with her for almost 2 years. I didn't find her having a child to be much of a problem especially since i'm ready to have my own and I love being around kids. I loved her daughter as much as a real father can love his child. To be honest I thought we were going to end up getting married, but we had to many problems. Long story short.. I still care about both of them a lot, but we're better off apart.

SoleAddicted how old are you? Just curious.. And yeah I'm trying to get over my ex, I still have some time to go. It doesn't help that she acts as if I never existed though and parties her @$$ off. :smh: But I'll bounce back..

@ Durantulla It's not going to be easy to get over her especially since you were with her for 3 years and lived with her. That's going to take some time to get over. My ex girlfriend hates me because we broke up on a really bad terms. It doesn't change the fact that I still care about her though because you can't just stop caring unless you have no fking emotions.

2weeks no lie

pnoysportnsbz- Yeah I know bro, I tried to dead her as much as possible. I moved completely away from her (since we lived together), to a whole different part of the state. I erased her from Facebook so I can't see what she is doing, erased her number (even though I know it by heart :smh: ). She's tried to answer but I have not responded. Just trying to live my live now..

[quote="Durantulla"]pnoysportnsbz- Yeah I know bro, I tried to dead her as much as possible. I moved completely away from her (since we lived together), to a whole different part of the state. I erased her from Facebook so I can't see what she is doing, erased her number (even though I know it by heart :smh: ). She's tried to answer but I have not responded. Just trying to live my live now..[/quote] I feel you on that. I ended up finally forgetting my exes number eventually, but it's been awhile for me now though. I'm already okay with everything. You'll get over everything i'm sure you know that. It's just going to take time.