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Months ago | 22nd July 2012 19:47
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All of you guys sounds really young and your situations bring back many memories from my youth. I would advise that you do what you feel. If you like a female then tell her. There are only two possible outcomes:
1. She will like you back
2. She will not feel the same
You will always want the #1 outcome. However, #2 isn't as bad as it seems because it will give the answer to the what if and I don't know questions that constantly plague your thought processes.
If you guys are as young as I think you are I encourage you to live life and have fun doing it. I understand feelings and emotions but the fact of the matter is that girls come and go. Always be a gentleman and treat girls with respect but don't give someone power over your heart when you're not sure if they deserve it. Live your life and don't put it on hold for a relationship that may or may not happen. If its meant to be it will be.
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Adding on to what I said up there.. Today I wake up and she's on my mind.. I try to not think about her by going back to sleep but I wake up again just to have her on my mind again.. Three naps today.. I wish I was dead guys seriously... I'm so depressed... And the reason I think she isn't ready for something serious is because she was in a relationship for two years and that guy abused her and treated her like dirt and she took it and said that she was nothing and after they broke up is when she started becoming independent and all that. I feel like she is scared it will happen again but I would never lay my hands on a woman like that... She is 19 turning 20 in august and I'm 18 turning 19 in November btw...
I actually read all of that shit and all I can say is stop being pussy. No bitch worth crying over especially if there wasnt even a damn relationship and you're still fucking 18 years old , whole motherfucking life ahead of you. Have your head up high and your balls low like a man.
Read that entire brick, but I kinda know how you feel. I had a similar situation with this one girl and I feel like I'm still hooked on her today. We were really close, things didn't work out the way I planned it, we started separating, but things got better eventually between us. It really sucks because it's that feeling of "you can't have what you want" but 100x. I actively fill my day with things to do like workout, basketball, chillin' with the n*ggaz, but it's those times when I'm not doing anything that I think about her. You gotta realize that you're young and it may feel impossible, but you can definitely get another girl as long as you're half decent lookin' and know how to handle a bitch. It's always hard moving on, but that's all you can do if she's not trying to be with you. It doesn't help that you hang out with all the same people she hangs out with, but I had the same problem. Meeting new people would definitely help ease the pain. I remember you posting this before, a while ago and it's starting to sound like it's taking a serious toll on you. Really don't know the perfect advice for you cause I'm kinda stuck on the same boat, but take care of yourself man.
Little off topic but, 2 things I learned:
1.Never try to make a girl jealous/one up her. That shit doesn't fucking work and makes everything worse, cause her ass will do it right back to you.
2.Don't give bitches too much attention. They live off it, but don't be a dick either.
i tried to read that novel but my eyes started to burn :(
Idomt even have motivation to work out or play ball.. I've tried.. I just keep thinking about her.. This is the 4th day since we have talked and I'm still having these small little breakdowns throughout the day. Not like a full on ugly face cry but just tears come out my eyes..
She wants to stay friends... I want to be more than friends.. But since we can't do you guys think I should shove all my feelings to the side and stay friends with her and maybe develop something in the near future? Doesn't that work? People are friends before they become something serious.. I mean we were friends and it got serious and she didn't want that, it was too soon. So should we maybe stay friends until she is ready..?
^Definitely, it worked for me.
I'm just afraid that if we stay friends for awhile she won't feel the same way in the long run, and I know for sure I am. I've never felt like this about a girl before.
