Official: Relationship Problems v.3

[quote="YeezyTaughtYaMom"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="TwoTime"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="Chaz-O-Velt"][quote="jordankobe1968"][quote="The_Kis"]Broke up with my chick just a little short of 7 years, really going through the breakup bullshit right now. No chance of making it work as we don't want to. But still i hate the breakup feeling. Get Money on to the next... but not for a while for the next one...[/quote] [i][b]WOW!!!seven7 years and you BROKE-up,,that sucks,,i hope you're young and NOT over 30??[/b][/i][/quote] [b]30's really not old.[/b][/quote] I'm exactly 30. Yeah we are calling it quits after all this time. I'm going through the normal breakup bs but I know this is the right thing to do. 30 isnt old at all, I'm stable with my career and make good money. I live right next to NYC.[/quote] why did you guys break up if you dont mind me asking?[/quote] It's really a ton of reasons from both me and her. She's 6 years older than me and i guess now it bothers her 7 years later? but besides that she's one of those controlling women and I just can't take it anymore. To her my opinions are always dumb or don't matter. She doesn't have her head on straight, no job, no goals, I've been paying the bills for like the past 3 years as she can't hold a job. Trust issues,Lying. She's violent, likes to throw shit, break shit. I'm just so happy to be moving on with my life. like my chest feels lighter than ever as well as my stress level.[/quote] UMmm you were paying her bills. And she was demeaning to you. Ummmm dude do yourself a favor hit her up and let her know how much of a massive B*tch she is. You are right keep it moving don't go back to that at all. Love is a powerful emotion but neglect is a powerful holding. [/quote] it wasn't like i was paying her bills, we live together in the same house, everything is in my name so i would pay it but she stopped givineg me her half. yes she was demeaning to me and that's another reason i won't go back to her. I love her to death and always will have a spot in my heart for her, but my life needs to move on. There are way better things out there for me and at this stage in my life, she's not cutting it. the neglect used to kill me, i even made a track called justified emotional neglect that's how much it used to kill me. But guys really there is always something better out there...

[quote="The_Kis"][quote="YeezyTaughtYaMom"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="TwoTime"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="Chaz-O-Velt"][quote="jordankobe1968"][quote="The_Kis"]Broke up with my chick just a little short of 7 years, really going through the breakup bullshit right now. No chance of making it work as we don't want to. But still i hate the breakup feeling. Get Money on to the next... but not for a while for the next one...[/quote] [i][b]WOW!!!seven7 years and you BROKE-up,,that sucks,,i hope you're young and NOT over 30??[/b][/i][/quote] [b]30's really not old.[/b][/quote] I'm exactly 30. Yeah we are calling it quits after all this time. I'm going through the normal breakup bs but I know this is the right thing to do. 30 isnt old at all, I'm stable with my career and make good money. I live right next to NYC.[/quote] why did you guys break up if you dont mind me asking?[/quote] It's really a ton of reasons from both me and her. She's 6 years older than me and i guess now it bothers her 7 years later? but besides that she's one of those controlling women and I just can't take it anymore. To her my opinions are always dumb or don't matter. She doesn't have her head on straight, no job, no goals, I've been paying the bills for like the past 3 years as she can't hold a job. Trust issues,Lying. She's violent, likes to throw shit, break shit. I'm just so happy to be moving on with my life. like my chest feels lighter than ever as well as my stress level.[/quote] UMmm you were paying her bills. And she was demeaning to you. Ummmm dude do yourself a favor hit her up and let her know how much of a massive B*tch she is. You are right keep it moving don't go back to that at all. Love is a powerful emotion but neglect is a powerful holding. [/quote] it wasn't like i was paying her bills, we live together in the same house, everything is in my name so i would pay it but she stopped givineg me her half. yes she was demeaning to me and that's another reason i won't go back to her. I love her to death and always will have a spot in my heart for her, but my life needs to move on. There are way better things out there for me and at this stage in my life, she's not cutting it. the neglect used to kill me, i even made a track called justified emotional neglect that's how much it used to kill me. But guys really there is always something better out there...[/quote] I'm proud of you man.I hope you stay strong. Do you happen to have the track on youtube. Don't go back to that at all. I dislike when women do things like this. The last older women I dated had a kid and she would try to call me out for things like this and I wasn't having it so I ended it. God damn was she the finest girl i dated yes but worth the headache hell no.

[quote="YeezyTaughtYaMom"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="YeezyTaughtYaMom"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="TwoTime"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="Chaz-O-Velt"][quote="jordankobe1968"][quote="The_Kis"]Broke up with my chick just a little short of 7 years, really going through the breakup bullshit right now. No chance of making it work as we don't want to. But still i hate the breakup feeling. Get Money on to the next... but not for a while for the next one...[/quote] [i][b]WOW!!!seven7 years and you BROKE-up,,that sucks,,i hope you're young and NOT over 30??[/b][/i][/quote] [b]30's really not old.[/b][/quote] I'm exactly 30. Yeah we are calling it quits after all this time. I'm going through the normal breakup bs but I know this is the right thing to do. 30 isnt old at all, I'm stable with my career and make good money. I live right next to NYC.[/quote] why did you guys break up if you dont mind me asking?[/quote] It's really a ton of reasons from both me and her. She's 6 years older than me and i guess now it bothers her 7 years later? but besides that she's one of those controlling women and I just can't take it anymore. To her my opinions are always dumb or don't matter. She doesn't have her head on straight, no job, no goals, I've been paying the bills for like the past 3 years as she can't hold a job. Trust issues,Lying. She's violent, likes to throw shit, break shit. I'm just so happy to be moving on with my life. like my chest feels lighter than ever as well as my stress level.[/quote] UMmm you were paying her bills. And she was demeaning to you. Ummmm dude do yourself a favor hit her up and let her know how much of a massive B*tch she is. You are right keep it moving don't go back to that at all. Love is a powerful emotion but neglect is a powerful holding. [/quote] it wasn't like i was paying her bills, we live together in the same house, everything is in my name so i would pay it but she stopped givineg me her half. yes she was demeaning to me and that's another reason i won't go back to her. I love her to death and always will have a spot in my heart for her, but my life needs to move on. There are way better things out there for me and at this stage in my life, she's not cutting it. the neglect used to kill me, i even made a track called justified emotional neglect that's how much it used to kill me. But guys really there is always something better out there...[/quote] I'm proud of you man.I hope you stay strong. Do you happen to have the track on youtube. Don't go back to that at all. I dislike when women do things like this. The last older women I dated had a kid and she would try to call me out for things like this and I wasn't having it so I ended it. God damn was she the finest girl i dated yes but worth the headache hell no. [/quote] You can find all 3 versions of my track on Soundcloud. But yeah I mean it's not worth it so, hey you win some you lose some, but the lesson is always learned.

On a side note the tracks were dope.

Yo wassup guys. I'm going thru a little issue with my girlfriend just want to know y'all opinion on this. So we've. Even going out for 4 years and just recently we got into a pretty big argument. She has t talked to me in 5 days and I'm trying to contact her via txt and called everyday. And it's hard for me because I'll I do is wait around for a response but she is workin 2 jobs so she keeps herself pretty occupied. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Thanks yall

[quote="soleCROOK"]Yo wassup guys. I'm going thru a little issue with my girlfriend just want to know y'all opinion on this. So we've. Even going out for 4 years and just recently we got into a pretty big argument. She has t talked to me in 5 days and I'm trying to contact her via txt and called everyday. And it's hard for me because I'll I do is wait around for a response but she is workin 2 jobs so she keeps herself pretty occupied. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Thanks yall[/quote] What was the argument about? have you tried dropping by her house after she's out of work to talk or is it so bad that it's not going down like that? Were you at fault is this argument?

[quote="The_Kis"][quote="soleCROOK"]Yo wassup guys. I'm going thru a little issue with my girlfriend just want to know y'all opinion on this. So we've. Even going out for 4 years and just recently we got into a pretty big argument. She has t talked to me in 5 days and I'm trying to contact her via txt and called everyday. And it's hard for me because I'll I do is wait around for a response but she is workin 2 jobs so she keeps herself pretty occupied. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Thanks yall[/quote] What was the argument about? have you tried dropping by her house after she's out of work to talk or is it so bad that it's not going down like that? Were you at fault is this argument?[/quote] So basically I just got back from a 2 week vacation. And unfortunately when I came back it was around graduation season and she's been caught up with preparing for parties and running errands a lot. And my situation was I had family come over from Arizona as we are also preparing for a graduation party. Then one night when we were both free I asked her to come over because my car was not working at the time, but she said it was too late and she didn't want to disturb my parents. Which I understand but she said she was gonna meet up with her homegirl because she needed to talk to her about some problems. So I'm like wtf you not gonna see me but your gonna go and see your homegirl, and btw we seen each other only twice when I got back from vacation. So that already irritated me, maybe and I basically said "I should've stayed in vacation because I'm not missing anything here" and that's what pushed her over the edge. This whole thing is my fault and I understand that, but I'm trying to be the mature one and to talk it out and resolve this issue but she's being stubborn and not giving any effort to talk to me. Maybe being a little bitch about this situation shit I don't know. But yeah I went to her house a couple of nights ago sayin I'm outside let's talk and hella blowing up her phone, and all she said was "please stop calling me" but then that same morning, I texted her saying I miss her and I want to see her, and she replied "who was that to" I mean is this all a front? Will this blow over or am I not trying hard enough to get her back.

[quote="soleCROOK"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="soleCROOK"]Yo wassup guys. I'm going thru a little issue with my girlfriend just want to know y'all opinion on this. So we've. Even going out for 4 years and just recently we got into a pretty big argument. She has t talked to me in 5 days and I'm trying to contact her via txt and called everyday. And it's hard for me because I'll I do is wait around for a response but she is workin 2 jobs so she keeps herself pretty occupied. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Thanks yall[/quote] What was the argument about? have you tried dropping by her house after she's out of work to talk or is it so bad that it's not going down like that? Were you at fault is this argument?[/quote] So basically I just got back from a 2 week vacation. And unfortunately when I came back it was around graduation season and she's been caught up with preparing for parties and running errands a lot. And my situation was I had family come over from Arizona as we are also preparing for a graduation party. Then one night when we were both free I asked her to come over because my car was not working at the time, but she said it was too late and she didn't want to disturb my parents. Which I understand but she said she was gonna meet up with her homegirl because she needed to talk to her about some problems. So I'm like wtf you not gonna see me but your gonna go and see your homegirl, and btw we seen each other only twice when I got back from vacation. So that already irritated me, maybe and I basically said "I should've stayed in vacation because I'm not missing anything here" and that's what pushed her over the edge. This whole thing is my fault and I understand that, but I'm trying to be the mature one and to talk it out and resolve this issue but she's being stubborn and not giving any effort to talk to me. Maybe being a little bitch about this situation shit I don't know. But yeah I went to her house a couple of nights ago sayin I'm outside let's talk and hella blowing up her phone, and all she said was "please stop calling me" but then that same morning, I texted her saying I miss her and I want to see her, and she replied "who was that to" I mean is this all a front? Will this blow over or am I not trying hard enough to get her back. [/quote] Well when you said " I'm not missing anything here" I'm assuming she took that as she is nothing to you, that is why she is so pissed. How long you been with her? of course she is gonna say things like that cause you made her feel like a nobody, it may be a front but you need to really prove to her you're sorry and make it up to her..

[quote="The_Kis"][quote="soleCROOK"][quote="The_Kis"][quote="soleCROOK"]Yo wassup guys. I'm going thru a little issue with my girlfriend just want to know y'all opinion on this. So we've. Even going out for 4 years and just recently we got into a pretty big argument. She has t talked to me in 5 days and I'm trying to contact her via txt and called everyday. And it's hard for me because I'll I do is wait around for a response but she is workin 2 jobs so she keeps herself pretty occupied. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Thanks yall[/quote] What was the argument about? have you tried dropping by her house after she's out of work to talk or is it so bad that it's not going down like that? Were you at fault is this argument?[/quote] So basically I just got back from a 2 week vacation. And unfortunately when I came back it was around graduation season and she's been caught up with preparing for parties and running errands a lot. And my situation was I had family come over from Arizona as we are also preparing for a graduation party. Then one night when we were both free I asked her to come over because my car was not working at the time, but she said it was too late and she didn't want to disturb my parents. Which I understand but she said she was gonna meet up with her homegirl because she needed to talk to her about some problems. So I'm like wtf you not gonna see me but your gonna go and see your homegirl, and btw we seen each other only twice when I got back from vacation. So that already irritated me, maybe and I basically said "I should've stayed in vacation because I'm not missing anything here" and that's what pushed her over the edge. This whole thing is my fault and I understand that, but I'm trying to be the mature one and to talk it out and resolve this issue but she's being stubborn and not giving any effort to talk to me. Maybe being a little bitch about this situation shit I don't know. But yeah I went to her house a couple of nights ago sayin I'm outside let's talk and hella blowing up her phone, and all she said was "please stop calling me" but then that same morning, I texted her saying I miss her and I want to see her, and she replied "who was that to" I mean is this all a front? Will this blow over or am I not trying hard enough to get her back. [/quote] Well when you said " I'm not missing anything here" I'm assuming she took that as she is nothing to you, that is why she is so pissed. How long you been with her? of course she is gonna say things like that cause you made her feel like a nobody, it may be a front but you need to really prove to her you're sorry and make it up to her..[/quote] we've been together for 4 years. she just recently txtd me saying that she needs space because of her working 2 jobs and she doesnt need anymore stress.. but your right brah i gotta prove to ehr that im really sorry and just try my best to make it up to her. thanks for your input and your time for reading my situation, i really appreciate it The_Kis, right on brotha.

Anytime bro, i'm sure the 2 jobs are stressful but remind her that you're not there to add on to the stress but relieve it..