I told this kid to kick rocks, if he won't ship first. He's an idiot to even attemp to make me ship my shoes first.
Asking him to ship first is no different than him asking you.
You should have brought up sneaker exchange instead of asking him to ship to you first.
we may know your legit...but he's doing a transaction with you and wants to be safe just like everyone else he doesn't know you like that so of course he would say ship at the same time...next time as soon as a trade is said offer sneaker exchange don't say "you offered you ship first" just put the exchange first and if he declines he's suspicious and he/she should be flagged.